The other day I was listening to a couple of my coworkers who had a discussion about oral sex. These girls are in their early twenties and date around quite a lot during the summer.
Neither of them would give head and that made me wonder if they did or did not expect the guy to go down on them. I hoped they didn’t because I think that if you want something you need to give something. How could I expect a guy to lick me out if I don’t give him a BJ?
The thing that concerned these young women the most was the cum. I can agree with them that sometimes it’s not the tastiest thing in the world, but there are easy ways to avoid it ending up in your mouth.
Oral sex is a great and exciting foreplay. Bringing each other to the brink of orgasm and then pull back is both fun and sexy in my mind. Not to mention the 69 position which is an amazing experience.
I thought back to my first BJ and how nervous I was at the time. But over the years you perfect your technique until you can control the man’s orgasm like a conductor his or hers orchestra.
In the end, it’s up to each and everyone if they give oral sex. All I’m saying, give it a try. You might find that you like it.